FORGIVENESS

In order for a Christian to live a life free from the moorings of his own sin, he must find a way to truly forgive those who have sinned against him. The Lord's Prayer speaks to this ... "forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us". 

If someone from your past has hurt you in a manner that stings with each remembrance, you may wonder ... 'Have I really forgiven this person and if so, why are the memories still able to stir such strong emotions?' 

The test of whether or not we have genuinely forgiven someone may be found on Calvary's cross. Though He was enduring tremendous pain, Christ plumbed the depths of forgiveness by asking His Father to "forgive them for they know not what they do". Later, when Stephen was being stoned he made the same behest. 

Not only did they personally forgive their enemies, they actually sought their Heavenly Father to do so. 

As you study these Biblical accounts, you may wonder ... "Could I make that same plea for someone who has purposefully caused me harm? Could I place the 'well-being' of that person's soul above what I would consider to be 'due justice'? Could my implacable heart be transformed into a merciful heart?, and ... could I, with all sincerity, petition God to forgive my enemy"? 

If someone comes to mind and you cringe at the memory of the hurtful encounter, try praying for a change of heart concerning that person. Desire to see him through God's eyes. 

Then ... approach the Throne of Grace as an 'intercessor' on your adversary's behalf. 

This prayer can bring freedom from the deep-rooted impact of being victimized. That hurtful memory loses its grip on your life in Christ.  

'Forgiveness' has more to do with your relationship with God than your historical link to the transgressor. The task of dealing with an open wound created years ago will be over at last.