Believers should challenge, question, and encourage one another ... As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend. (Proverbs 27:17)
In order to sharpen steel, a similar piece of metal must be used. As they grind away at each other's rough edges, both are transformed into more effective versions of themselves.
Likewise, two devoted followers of Christ can 'refine' each other.
This analogy implies a certain level of conflict: they don't become sharper unless 'abrasion' takes place. Fellow believers who never confront or debate intricate matters of their faith ... remain dull. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. (Proverbs 27:6)
It is critical that you only receive spiritual guidance (or constructive criticism) from like-minded Christians who genuinely care. You need to know that the person providing counsel has your best interest at heart. A friend may indeed 'wound' you at times, but you can appreciate his pure motives.
Conversely, the religious 'kisses' of a false teacher are insidious by nature.
It is important to carefully choose who you 'brush up against'. Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14)
A Christian friend can help lead you to greater spiritual maturity and a closer walk with Jesus. But an unfiltered relationship with an ungodly acquaintance often leads to temptation and sin.
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