LONGSUFFERING

The word 'longsuffering' does not necessarily mean 'to suffer long'. A better definition is needed so that we can understand its intent. In the Bible, the term actually consists of two Greek words, 'long' and 'temper'; thus it can be translated ... 'long-tempered'. 

It refers to 'self-restraint when angered'. A longsuffering person does not immediately retaliate when wronged; he is said to have a 'long fuse'. He bridles the emotion that would spur any act of revenge.

Evidence that a man has received Jesus Christ as Lord is an irrefutable change in his temperament ... the imparted 'divine nature'. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Galatians 5:22–23 

All believers are commanded to display these attributes ... Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, and longsuffering. Colossians 3:12

Note that 'longsuffering' began with God, Himself ... But You, O Lord, are a God full of compassion, and gracious, longsuffering, and abundant in mercy and truth. Psalm 86:15

Therefore, since God is longsuffering with us, it is required that we be patient with others ... Do not grieve the Holy Spirit, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:30-32

The ultimate example of God’s 'longsuffering' is His waiting for individuals to respond to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. He is not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. (2 Peter 3:9) 

But know this, there is a soon-coming day when His patience will be exhausted and judgment will fall upon mankind. Be counted as one who has been saved by grace through faith ... cloaked in the righteousness of God's only begotten Son.